Gender Neutral Pronouns and Other Terms
For Use in Stories with Gender Non-Binary Characters
But they work great in real life too!
I developed the following set of gender neutral terms for use in my writing when working with characters who do not identify as men/women or boys/girls.
These gender neutral terms are for people who identify as gender nonconforming, gender queer, as a third gender, agender, gender fluid, gender variant, non-binary, etc. These terms aren't supposed to replace non-gender terms (child, parent, sibling, or spouse). The purpose of these terms is so that an identity can be made visible, not hidden.
For example: My child is 12 years old.
This actually obscures the gender of the child and could make a non-binary gender identity seem less valid.
Whereas: My thawn is 12 years old.
This makes it very clear that my offspring identifies along the gender spectrum, but not as a boy or girl.
I hope you'll find these terms useful: